An inevitable aspect of bringing a companion animal into your home — a part many people rarely discuss — is the loss of a pet. When you lose your best friend, the one you could always count on when you were down, the one who warmed you, played with you and made you laugh no matter how bad you felt — it can be a devastating experience. It’s important to grieve this loss and work through the emotions.
People grieve the loss of a pet in different ways. Most people will experience the seven stages of grief (shock, denial, bargaining, anger, guilt, sorrow and acceptance), but the amount of time spent in each stage may vary greatly. Here are some tips to help you through the grieving process:
It’s OK to cry and show outward signs of grief for your pet. The human-animal bond is very strong, and for many people, the loss of a pet is felt as deeply as the loss of a close friend or family member.
Talk about your pet with friends and family, including the good times, the bad times and even the way it ended (if you choose). Sharing the wonderful memories you have of your pet will help you progress through the grieving process.
Have a memorial service for your pet. Whether you bury your pet in your backyard, scatter his ashes in the woods or simply go to his favorite dog park, you can honor his memory by holding a service. Include the entire family and recall favorite memories or plant a tree or flower garden in your pet’s memory.
Join a pet bereavement support group or call a pet bereavement hotline. Check with your local animal shelter for more information on finding one of these groups.
Make a donation to American Humane Society in memory of your cherished pet. A memorial gift is a beautiful way to honor your pet’s memory and celebrate their faithful bond, while helping American Humane Society continue vital programs that protect and nurture animals in need.
Purchase a Black Paw Memorial Pin to honor the memory of your departed pet. The pin lets everyone know that you are in mourning and could use a little extra kindness in your time of sorrow.
Let yourself feel the pain and loss but remember to appreciate all the years you spent with your beloved companion.
Honor Your Beloved Pet
We understand that saying goodbye to your beloved pet is one of the most challenging decisions you’ll ever face and no matter how long our pets are with us, our time with them is inevitably far too short.
Consider making a memorial gift to honor their legacy and help other animals in need, as a compassionate way to remember the special bond you shared.
